Saturday, 29 November 2014

Christmas gifts for difficult-to-buy-for people.

I know it's still only November, but I'm going to have to mention Christmas shopping.  For most people it can be quite easy, they have lots of interests, or (like my own daughters) they make a wish-list which is conveniently stuck onto the fridge for me to see.  They don't get everything on the list, my pockets aren't deep enough for that, but I like to choose a couple of things they've asked for plus a surprise or two.

But there are still a few people who are a little bit more difficult to buy for than others. What do you buy them?  I have a few suggestions.

We don't have to buy a lot of gifts for men around here, but when we do it can sometimes stump me. Not suitable for my brother, who is teetotal, but I like these hip flasks from Buyahipflask,com and prices start from a very reasonable £15.  I know someone who'd love one of these.

Hip flasks from

Talking of alcohol, I received a very welcome surprise package from Lindeman's recently.  I enjoy a glass or two (or three) of wine at the weekend, although  I'm not an expert by any stretch of the imagination.

Lindeman's tell me that the Bin 45 Cabernet Sauvignon has a full-bodied palate with a mixture of blackcurrant and plums with hints of cedary French oak; and the Bin 85 Pinot Grigio has aromas of peach, fig and toasty oak, but honestly, I'll have take their word for it.  All I know is that I enjoyed both wines, and I'd be happy to get either of these in my Christmas stocking, particularly the Chardonnay. Very nice.

Lindeman's wines

If you know a chocolate-lover, and who doesn't, what about one of these 'gifts for chocolate lovers' from Pamper Parcels? I was lucky enough to receive one last week and it was a very welcome treat for a house full of hormonal women, although there was a bit of undignified grabbing when the box was opened.  The quality of the chocolate is top-notch by the way.

Pamper Parcels for chocolate lovers

For fragrance lovers I love this gift idea from The Fragrance Shop.  For just £20 a year (or £5 a quarter which can be cancelled at anytime) you can join their Discovery Club and every three months you can enjoy a new box of fragrances, including samples for men and women.  We received one of the beautifully packaged boxes and it was very well received, we particularly liked the fragrances by Loewe which were new to us. It's a great way to try out new scents, without the expensive outlay of buying a whole bottle, and each phial contains enough for you to wear it for a couple of days: long enough to decide if you like it.  Such a great idea.

The Fragrance Shop Discovery Club

What's on your wish list?

Sunday, 23 November 2014

Review: Teen Parcel ~ it's a monthly thing

Teen Parcel

I was nine or ten when my Mum made her first and only attempt to explain what periods where.

She mumbled about some monthly stuff going on. I had no idea what she was talking about. "What do you mean....down there?....What, every month?"

Poor Mum. She endured the conversation for a few excruciating minutes, but I was still pretty unsure of the facts at the end of it. I just knew it was unpleasant, embarrassing, and not something people talked about.  

Two years later when I got my first period it was all a bit inconvenient. I was getting ready to get the train into town to see the Bay City Rollers at the Liverpool Empire, and I didn't want to be late, but I couldn't find the right words to explain to tell Mum that 'it' had happened.  She was in the kitchen battling with the twin-tub washer and I stood watching her for what seemed like an eternity, leaning against a hot radiator, until I eventually blurted it out. She immediately went upstairs and came back to hand me a brown paper bag with a pack of sanitary towels inside. Not a single word was said through the whole transaction and the word 'period' was never mentioned again in our house.

I always promised myself I would be more open with my own daughters and encourage them to ask me questions about growing up and changes to their bodies, and I'm pleased that they can talk to me about anything without mumbling or feeling embarrassed.

Teen Parcels are all about preparing girls for their first period, and encouraging a healthy and confident attitude to periods and growing up.  For a monthly subscription, the girl receives a parcel (small enough to be posted through the letterbox) that not only contains the essential sanitary protection (a choice of towels or tampons) but a box of goodies to enjoy, including beauty products, a sweet treat and something to drink. I think it's a great idea, and a perfect starting point for those conversations about becoming a woman.

Teen Parcel contents

Teen Parcel contents

We received two Teen Parcels and both arrived beautifully packaged and the contents were well thought out.  My girls were impressed with the contents and thought they'd be a great way to mark the start of a girl's periods and would be something to look forward to, because sometimes we all need a bit of cheering up at that time of the month.

The Teen Parcel website has some great information for girls, with handy apps and tips and advice on everything to do with periods, plus there's a monthly newsletter to sign up to.  I also liked '6 Life Lessons We've Learnt from Katniss Everdeen'  which definitely appealed to Tall Daughter who is a big fan of the Hunger Games.

The subscription is £5.95 for the first box, followed by £9.99 thereafter, which may seem a bit pricey but the contents of the boxes we received would definitely add up to more than that and P&P is included, plus you can cancel at any time.

It's a well executed idea - I can't believe it's not been thought of before now - and something I'd be happy to recommend to friends with younger daughters for when they reach that certain age.

Watch out for the Twitter party next week around building girls' self-confidence and how to prepare them for their first period. You can join the conversation by using the hashtag #itsamonthlything.

Disclosure:  we received two Teen Parcels for review purposes, but words and opinions are my own.

Thursday, 13 November 2014

The Teenager turns 18

The Teenager turns 18
Finally, after months of counting down the days The Teenager turned 18 yesterday.

It was a great day, filled with happiness. There were balloons, presents, cards, a meal at her favourite restaurant, cocktails, and the perfect cake for a mega-fan of the Foo Fighters.

The Teenager is a great girl.  Yes, I know I'm biased but honestly, she is. She's fun, she's smart, and she's got a great, bubbly personality. What's more, she knows what she wants out of life and is determined to get it.

I'll be honest, she hasn't always made the past 18 years easy for me - she's very headstrong and at times it's felt like she challenged almost every decision I've ever made, and she probably has, but my God, I admire her strength of character.  Speaking as someone who has spent their  whole life being compliant I love that she questions everything, even if it does drive me crazy sometimes.

So, I'm now the parent of a fully-grown adult. It's unchartered territory for us, but I'm sure it'll be fine.
Foo Fighters 18th birthday cake
Her Foo Fighters birthday cake

If things go to plan (and my goodness she's working hard to make it happen) this time next year she'll be at university studying law or criminology. I'm not sure how I feel about her leaving home, the house will be very quiet, and much tidier, without her but I know she can't wait. And that's her in a nutshell really, she's always been ready for the next adventure.

Happy birthday to my lovely lovely girl. Cheers!

p.s. Today is the turn of her sister as it's her 15th birthday.  You might think that was bad planning to have two birthdays the day after each other, but I prefer to see the positives - in 3 years time they can share a joint 18th and 21st birthday party. Genius.

Sunday, 9 November 2014

Lest We Forget ~ In Flanders Fields

In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.

 John McRae

Saturday, 8 November 2014

Pamper Parcels ~ the perfect Christmas gifts

Pamper Parcels is a new business set up by my very clever friend Rosie Shelley (who blogs as Rosie Scribble) and in the run-up to the Christmas shopping season I thought these would be perfect presents.

I've already started doing my present shopping but there's always a question mark over what to send to the people we won't get to see over the Christmas period and these would be ideal. Here's how Rosie describes the philosophy behind it.
"The idea behind the business is to encourage us all to take time out from our busy lives, and enjoy a little me-time. We believe taking time out to relax and enjoy a little pampering is now essential rather than a luxury, and it has wide health benefits.

Each of our pamper boxes contains a mixture of carefully selected natural, organic and Fair Trade products, plus products sourced from independent businesses. The aim is that each product gives something back in some way – to the environment, to nature, to the community and to workers in the developing world.
 Each pamper box also contains one small extra gift, boxed with the words ‘pass it on’ stamped on, for you to pass on to someone else, promoting the gift of giving and spreading the happiness a little further. We’re calling it Pass the Parcel."

The range includes a variety of pamper boxes for men, women and teens, for a variety different occasions at a range of price points so there’s something for everyone.  A couple of friends who have received them as gifts were all equally impressed with the care and attention to detail that had gone into each parcel.

You can buy one for yourself or send it as a thoughtful gift to say thank you, good luck, take care of yourself, get well, happy birthday, or just because.

All of the items used have been ethically sourced, including the packaging, and are animal friendly too, which is a nice touch. Boxes are hand wrapped with care and sent through the post with your personalised message.

The website also offers a free me-time download to help you plan your time out.

And just in case anyone is wondering what to get me for Christmas I like this one...